Monday, August 24, 2015

Scorpions and False prophets

Photo and Caption by Mission President:
"Twenty-one new missionaries arrived.
Twenty elders and one sister."
Monday was an absolute blast! In the morning the Cape Coast Zone and Hermina Zone got together to play soccer against the Hermina ward members.

It was a lot of fun except some of the poly elders were getting a little too into it. Granted the members were playing really rough, so Elder Gasolo (He's Samoan) just trucked a kid and layed him out, and no sooner had the kid hit the ground Elder Gasolo picks him up and stood him on his feet. That kid is freaking huge and get's a little riled up in sports.

After that we went back and did laundry and prepped for the week. I found Nutella! But it's like 47 cedis! Yeesh!

Tuesday we had Zone conference, there we discussed various things involving the chain of command and communication, the paths in which we should follow. And various little other things, but that was the main one. I also received my first package from home! It's so nice to finally see something American. :)

Photo and Caption by Mission President:
"On Saturday, members of the Church
all across Africa participated in a day
of service.  Each stake was asked to plan
a significant project that would benefit
their community. The Cape Coast Stake
provided much needed landscape
maintenance and cleaning at the
psychiatric hospital.  There was a
wonderful turnout of the members
and they did beautiful work.
The missionaries participated along
with the members of the Church."
Wednesday was a really busy day. We had lots of lessons and lots of member visits. We gained 2 new investigators! One of them named Josephine is an absolute crack up, because she tries to act like she already knows a lot about the church and then refers to people like Muhammad as prophets.... So we're working on sorting through which facts go for which religion and then expounding on the correct ones. On our way home from teaching Josephine, Sister Sopa stopped us and invited us in for rice. She is always trying to feed us which is nice, but sometimes she gives us a little too much food, and here it's impolite to not finish your food.... So we have to finish it. :)

Thursday was a day of very little success. The day started out great with our weekly planning session and getting things squared away for the day. When we were out all of our appointments were not home or asleep and not ready for us. Plus Festival is coming up soon and so people are getting ready for that and are really busy. It's hard to be productive when all you can do is wander the streets trying to find someone that'll give you the time to visit. Then again, Heavenly Father gives us challenges to help us grow and learn new things. So the best we can do is be patient and do all that we can and rely on the Lord. :)

Photo and Caption by Mission President:
No Shortage of Bugs!
Friday we had exchanges, so I spent the day with Elder Mapfumo. He's only been out for just over 4 months. He is a phenomenal scriptorian and has his doctrine down. But he likes to debate everything and prove that he's right no matter what. Which can be difficult when an investigator thinks they're right... But you can learn something from every companion! Overall the day went pretty great. It was nice to proselyte in a new area and go places I had never been before. Lately I've been studying Charity, since it's the root for all other Christ-like attributes. If we have charity, then we can have everything else. :)

Saturday was pretty similar to Thursday's productivity. Nearly all of our appointments fell through and so did our back ups. We stayed out for the full proselyting time though, even though it wasn't fruitful, but guess what! We got a new investigator right before it was time to head home. His name is Benjamin and he seems really enthusiastic about learning about the gospel.

Photo and Caption by Mission President:
"President Fokuo surprised us with a
fufu dinner with Talapia in Palm Nut Soup.
He is always so kind.  It was very delicious.
I like fufu, but it is still difficult for me to
eat it.  You have to dip your fingers in very
hot soup.  I usually just pick around
at the top until the soup cools
enough for me to dig in.
I admire those who have trained
their fingers to ignore the pain."
Also earlier that morning we went and played soccer with some of the members at a local school. While I was waiting to sub in I looked over and saw a huge greenish black scorpion! Eeesh!! Elder Mapfumo started ticking it off by poking it with a stick, but then this big guy came over, used 2 sticks like chop sticks to pick it up, tossed it in the air, and then drop kicked it into the trees! Man these people are crazy.

Sunday was exactly one month since leaving home! I couldn't believe it has already been that long! It doesn't feel like it. Every day I experience something new about the African culture that just blows me away, but I just need to realize that I'm the visitor here, and that their ways are normal here.

Only one of four of our investigators came to church today... I really wish they would keep their commitments. We finally got a referral today! We met him and his name is Alfred and found that he only speaks Fante, so we'll need a translator to teach him. But he was really engaged and seems really promising.

So it was a week filled with ups and downs, but if there were no ups and downs in life then you'd be dead. :)

~Elder Park

Monday, August 17, 2015

Darkness and Machetes and Disciples

Obruni!!
This week flew by! Eeesh!

Tuesday we had district meeting. I got to meet the my Zone leaders and the 4 sisters in my district. They seem like a pretty crazy bunch, but I love them so much! :) We meet out in Araba, which is like a 15 minute taxi drive away.... All of the missionaries live in Cape Coast... So I'm slightly confused why we don't just meet at a local chapel, but oh well.

African Project
The Zone leaders invited me to go lifting with them at a local gym. So we'll be going every Monday Wednesday Friday. We give blessings all the time. I love how the members utilize us and call on us to help them in times of need.

Wednesday was an exchange. Elder Nwatah had to go to training so we took Elder Maphumo with us for the day, it was nice to have a third speaker in lessons, but at the same time he didn't know how to act around our investigators and totally went too deep for some of them.... which was a problem but hey, we learned from it. :) We gained 2 new investigators which is great! We've been looking for more people to teach!

With Brother Christian :)
We went gyming today, which ended up being an alley with 2 benches, rusted bars and cement dumb bells. It may seem like nothing, but you can get a pretty good work out still. :)

Weeding with a Machete!!!
Thursday was a little more difficult, the power was out all day and the night before. It's slightly hard to bathe with no light or water.  We had no water period, refrigeration, we couldn't iron or have fans on. After our first few meals we realized we needed to consolidate plates, since we couldn't wash any.

Being Disciples for Primary :)
I finally got Rachael's letter that she sent on the 23rd! It took a little over 3 weeks. I'm so glad she is serving and has set an example for me. :)

Matching Ties
Friday we still didn't have power.... so we each took 2, 7-gallon jugs down three stories to our water tank to fill them manually. But what goes down must come up.... Those were the longest 36 steps I've ever taken.

The owner of the alley gym is a pretty sweet guy. Plus, he's totally shredded! Like, freaking ripped. Aaay!

We had very little success, 4 of our 6 appointments fell through, and no one was wanting to talk. So it was rather disappointing... But as long as you do your best, that's all that He can ask for. :)

Love this Elder :)
Saturday was the African Project, it went from 5am to 1pm. We went to a psychiatric hospital and layed down cement and cut grass. But we didn't have lawn mowers or pruners of sorts. They handed out loads of Machetes and said "Go for it." And I was like "Waaa?!?!". Man that was hard work, but also a lot of fun. I'm so glad we don't cut grass like that back home. :)

I saw Elder Bay from the MTC. It was nice to see him and catch up with what he's been doing. They fed us at the project. There is a song by Inside Out talking about missionaries and in it a little girl talks about her uncle who went on a mission and all he ate was fish -- "eating their teeth, eye balls, and bones.... and that's it". That girl couldn't have been more right. Here, they eat everything, including the bones and cartilage. Which I'm still getting used to.

Sister Lucy.
She teaches me Fante :)
Sunday was great! I began reading the August 2015 Liahona and it's phenomenal! Everyone should read it. In church today, me and the other 3 Elders dressed up as Disciples of Christ and pretended to be various apostles talking about the miracles that Christ did. I was Peter. :)

Sister Sopa had us over for dinner again.  She isn't a member but she feeds us every Sunday. She made us soft Casava with a weird fish stew. The fish used was called "salted fish" and boy was it salty. Eeesh!!! But I stomached it. :) She had 10 sons and is an amazing woman. After we ate, her and I talked about families for a good half hour. I love her. :)

So that was my week! These weeks are flying by! Before I know it I'll be done, which is rather sad to think about. I am having so much fun and I love the people so much. :)

Yibishiwi!
~Elder Park

Monday, August 10, 2015

Fufu and the Field :)

Zone leaders and fellow
Cape Coast 2nd missionaries
This past week has been pretty grand.  Thursday I finally got to email! Which felt really good. We had porage for breakfast again. We have porage every morning only it's made out of something different each day, like today it was made out of corn... or so they say.

We only taught one discussion today and it was amazing! We had amazing companionship unity and had planned out everything that could have possibly happened. We got into the lesson and everything just flowed. We had all the right scriptures and said all the right things, I worded things a lot better than I thought I would. At the end of the lesson I committed him to Baptism! No one else in my district got him to say yes! Me and my companion were feeling the spirit so strongly. :) Personal studying has been getting more and more beneficial for me, ideas and concepts are sticking a lot better. :)

Elder Ofordeme!!!! :)
Friday was different from the usual, we did lots of little break out sessions that targeted different aspects and attributes. We had lots of thinking and pondering time which allowed us to think about what kind of a missionary we really want to become. Along with the kinds of attitudes and mindsets that will best benefit you . At the end of the evening we had this wonderful pep talk from a local bishop who works here at the MTC. It was so nice to finally get reassurance from somebody who served where you're going to serve,and he addressed practically every concern that I had. He didn't sugar coat it though, he told us it's going to be super hard but that we'll love it. It just reminded me of the quote from Christ saying "I didn't say it would be easy, I said it would be worth it."

Wedding!
Saturday was pretty much a normal thing, the only thing out of the ordinary was what we had for lunch.... It was Fufu!!! I still don't know if I like it or not. It's essentially this big sticky dough ball. You're supposed to tear off a piece (which is an absolute joke because it's so sticky it doesn't tear), dip it in the soup or broth (which just coats the fufu, the fufu doesn't absorb any of it), and then swallow it completely. If you chew it it'll get stuck in your gums, teeth, and on your tongue. It just slides down your throat. What's the point of eating food that you can't chew and enjoy?!?! My main question is though, why don't they just bake it? You're only one step away from bread! Anywho, hopefully I'll get used to the feeling of slick, slimy dough sliding down my throat.

In the evening me and some Elders played Uno with a deck of face cards. An Elder from Zimbabwe taught us the game and us American Elders knew what it was the moment he started explaining.

Still Wedding!
Sunday was fast Sunday I thought it would be hard not eating for a full 24 hours but it honestly wasn't that bad. As long as you have a solid purpose then you don't even realize you're hungry. Plus the Spirit is with you all day. The spirit is just grand and I love the assistance and comfort it gives. :)  We had several devotionals which discussed what kind of missionaries we need to be, how we need to tailor to investigators' needs and not spit out a lesson plan.

Brother Christan Ativor :)
Monday was my last full day in the MTC. It was filled with various health and safety meetings about what you should and should not do out in the field. They essentially promised us that as long as we take our Doxycycline and sleep under our mosquito nets then we would not get Malaria, sounds like a plan to me!  They gave us water bottles with filters that can filter absolutely everything, and the filtered water tastes like plastic. But the plasticyness is totally worth not getting a parasite.

Tuesday we went to our mission home, there we just chilled and watched church movies. We got to talk with President and his wife, along with the Assistants. But Tuesday was really low key.


Wednesday we went into the field! We got our areas that morning. They bussed us down to a trantran where we met our companions and then went on our ways to our different areas. My first area is the Cape Coast, Cape Coast 2nd Ward. And my companion is Elder Ofordeme. We dropped my stuff off at the apartment and then went to work. We decided to go and get lunch and my first meal was Fufu! We walked around and talked with members mainly. The people here are so nice and really sociable.

Thursday was my first full day in the field, we had our weekly planning session and then went out to the market to get food. The market is crazy and slightly gross.... But the food we get is usually okay! I've been living off rice, bread, eggs, and chicken. Now that might sound good but the quality is a little sketch.

We taught our 3 investigators: Christian, Samuela, and Philip. We are mainly trying to get them to church, but I committed both Samuela and Philip to baptism. I got Christian to commit and so he'll be baptized on Saturday! The only problem with the people here is that they want to please and hate to disappoint. Which means they'll say yes to your face but then not come later.

I love this man. :)
Friday was nice, I'm still getting used to sleeping under a net at night. It doesn't give you much room, but it's worth not getting bit. We taught our 3 investigators again and also some less actives. They all promised to come to church but I honestly doubt they'll come... :( Christian is on track for the following day. He seems really excited and honestly I think he's prepared.

Saturday was fantastic! There was a wedding and Christian's baptism! The wedding was for a member named Francise Mensah and Augustine. It was a wonderful event and I got to meet a lot more of the members. Shortly after, we had the baptism for Christian and my companion had me do the baptizing! It was such a cool experience and I'm so privileged to have had the honor of doing so. We finished the evening by talking with people on the street, trying to find new investigators.

Me and the Malmroses,
they adopted me
as they're grandson. :)
We talked family history forever!
Sunday was slightly difficult. All 3 hours were in Fante, so I just sat and tried to listen... I had no idea what they were saying. But I'm learning bit by bit. :) It's tradition for a Missionary to bear they're testimony the first time they're in the ward. So I bore mine about why I chose to serve which was my family and the temple. After which several members came and wanted to talk to me more about my family and my temple experiences. These people are so great and I honestly forget that they're black. We had groundnut soup at a member's house, but groundnuts are peanuts. So they gave me sardines instead.... They looked nasty but were honestly not bad at all. You just have to focus on the flavor and not what you're actually chewing.... :)

Today is my first P day (Preparation Day). We deep-cleaned the whole apartment and went shopping at the wonderful market that makes you want to not touch anything. The food is a lot better than I thought it would be, but it's still a little shady. We have to clean everything super well before preparing it. Pictures are a little hard to transfer over from Elder Ofordemes' camera, but I'll do my best until my SD (camera memory) card comes!

Some thoughts from studies. :)

  • The first law to practically everything is Obedience.
  • The Armour of God is nearly all defensive, stuff to help us be converted, but the sword of the Spirit / the word of God is our only tool of offense that we can use to affect others.
  • The whole book of "Our Search For Happiness", especially pages 10-12, and the bottom of 58-60. :)

Monday, August 3, 2015

The Americans Have Landed!

Photos and Comments from Ghana MTC Staff


July 23, 2015
This is the largest group of Americans we have ever had in the MTC since we have been here (19!)
and we still have one more who missed his connection who will be arriving tomorrow.
They arrived at the Ghana MTC at 11 p.m. and were bubbling with enthusiasm.  What a great group!

July 24, 2015
And you might ask - how are the Americans doing today?
You decide.  They seem fine to me.


July 25, 2015
And did the Americans get over jet-lag?
We will let you be the judge on that question.

July 27, 2015
July 29, 2015
Wednesdays most of the English-speaking Missionaries Visit the Temple
This is truly the House of the Lord

July 29, 2015
And it is official.
The July 24th group has now been to the temple.

July 30, 2015
Pictured above is our 38th Group since arriving in Africa.
They entered the MTC on July 24, 2015
and depart for the mission field next Tuesday.
Tuesday or Wednesday, each went to the Ghana Temple,
so now the entire group has been to the temple at least one time in their life.
Seated in front next to the missionaries from right to left are
the Malmroses, the Vinsons, and the Robisons.
Notice the African dresses on the Sisters.
They have embraced the culture and blend in well.

July 30, 2015
Unlike American culture, Africans don't mind people in their space
July 30, 2015
Future missionaries from Ivory Coast Visited the MTC today
July 31, 2015
Jacob District
They have been together for a week!
August 1, 2015
An inside look at the every day life in the MTC
Classroom - we learn by practicing our teaching skills

August 3, 2015
The Americans Leave Tomorrow! Are they ready?
They think they are ready.  We do too!